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I am a mother of three (ages 14,
12, 3) and have recently completed my college degree.
The last class I had to take was
sociology. The teacher was absolutely inspiring with the qualities that I
wish every human being had been graced with. Her last project of the term
was called "Smile." The class was asked to go out and smile at
three people and document their reactions. I am a very friendly person and
always smile at everyone and say hello anyway, so I thought this would be
a piece of cake, literally.
Soon after we were assigned the
project, my husband, youngest son, and I went out to McDonald’s one
crisp March morning. It was just our way of sharing special playtime with
our son.
We were standing in line, waiting
to be served, when all of a sudden everyone around us began to back away,
and then even my husband did. I did not move an inch. An overwhelming
feeling of panic welled up inside of me as I turned to see why they had
moved. As I turned around I smelled a horrible "dirty body"
smell. There, standing behind me, were two poor homeless men. As I looked
down at the short gentleman close to me, he was smiling. His beautiful
sky-blue eyes were full of God’s light as he searched for acceptance.
He said "good day" as
he counted the few coins he had been clutching. The second man fumbled
with his hands as he stood behind his friend. I realized the second man
was mentally challenged, and the blue-eyed gentleman was his salvation. I
held my tears as I stood there with them. The young lady at the counter
asked him what they wanted. He said, "Coffee is all, miss,"
because that was all they could afford. (If they wanted to sit in the
restaurant and warm up, they had to buy something. He just wanted to be
warm.)
Then I really felt it! The
compulsion was so great I almost reached out and embraced the little man
with the blue eyes. That is when I noticed all eyes in the restaurant were
set on me, judging my every action. I smiled and asked the young lady
behind the counter to give me two more breakfast meals on a separate tray.
I then walked around the corner to the table that the men had chosen as a
resting spot. I put the tray on the table and laid my hand on the
blue-eyed gentleman’s cold hand. He looked up at me, with tears in his
eyes, and said, "Thank you."
I leaned over, began to pat his
hand and said, "I did not do this for you. God is here working
through me to give you hope." I started to cry as I walked away to
join my husband and son. When I sat down my husband smiled at me and said,
"That is why God gave you to me, honey, to give me hope." We
held hands for a moment and at that time we knew that only because of the
grace that we had been given were we able to give. We are not church
goers, but we are believers. That day showed me the pure light of God’s
sweet love.
I returned to college on the last
evening of class with this story in hand. I turned in my
"project," and the instructor read it. Then she looked up at me
and said, "Can I share this?" I slowly nodded as she got the
attention of the class.
She began to read, and that is
when I knew that we, as human beings and being part of God, share this
need to heal people and to be healed. In my own way I had touched the
people at McDonald’s, my husband, son, instructor, and every soul that
shared the classroom on the last night I spent as a college student. I
graduated with one of the biggest lessons I would ever learn:
UNCONDITIONAL ACCEPTANCE
Author Unknown
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