As Mrs. Thompson stood in the front of here 5th grade class on the very first day of school, she told the children a lie. Like most teachers, she looked at her students and said that she loved them all the same. But that was impossible, for there in the first row, slumped in his seat, was a little boy named Teddy Stoddard. Mrs. Thompson had watched Teddy the year before and noticed that he didn't play well with the other children, that his clothes were messy and that he constantly needed a bath. And she noticed that Teddy could be unpleasant. It got to the point where Mrs. Thompson would actually delight in marking his papers with a broad red pen, making bold Xs and then putting a big "F" at the top of his papers.

At the school where Mrs. Thompson taught, she was required to review each child's past records and she put Teddy's off till last. However, when she reviewed his file, she was in for a surprise.

Teddy's first grade teacher wrote, "Teddy is a bright child with a ready laugh. He does his work neatly and has good manners...he is a joy to be around."

His second grade teacher wrote, "Teddy is an excellent student, well liked by his classmates, but he is troubled because his mother has a terminal illness and life at home must be a struggle."

His third grade teacher wrote, "His mother's death has been hard on him. He tries to do his best, but his father doesn't show much interest and his home life will soon affect him if some steps aren't taken."

Teddy's forth grade teacher wrote, "Teddy is withdrawn and doesn't show much interest in school. He doesn't have many friends and he sometimes sleeps in class."

By now, Mrs. Thompson realized the problem and she was ashamed of herself. She felt even worse when her students brought her Christmas presents, wrapped in beautiful ribbons and bright paper, except for Teddy's. His present was clumsily wrapped in heavy brown paper that he got from a grocery bag. Mrs. Thompson took pains to open it in the middle of the other presents. Some of the children started to laugh when she found a rhinestone bracelet with some of the stones missing and a bottle that was one quarter full of perfume. But she stifled the children's laughter when she exclaimed how pretty the bracelet was, putting it on, and dabbing some of the perfume on her wrist. Teddy Stoddard stayed after school that day just long enough to say, "Mrs. Thompson, today you smelled just like my mom used to."

After the children all left she cried for at least an hour. On that very day, she quit teaching reading, writing and arithmetic. Instead she began teaching children. Mrs. Thompson paid particular attention to Teddy.

As she worked with him his mind seemed to come alive. The more she encouraged him the faster he responded. By the end of the year Teddy had become one of the best students in class. and despite her lie that she would love all children the same, Teddy became one of her "teacher's pets."

A year later she found a note under her door from Teddy, telling her that she was the best teacher in his whole life. Six years went by before she got another note from Teddy. He wrote that he finished high school, third in his class, and she was still the best teacher he had ever had in his whole life. Four years after that she got another letter, saying that while things had been tough at times, he had stayed in school, had stuck with it, and would soon graduate from college with the highest honors. He assured Mrs. Thompson the she was still the best teacher he had ever had in his whole life. 

Then four more years passed and yet another letter came. This time he explained that after his bachelors degree he decided to go a little further. The letter explained that she was still the best and favorite teacher that he had ever had. But now his name was a little longer and the letter was signed Theodore F. Stoddard MD.

The story doesn't end there. You see, there was yet another letter that spring. Teddy said, he had  this girl and was going to be married. He explained that his father had died a couple of years ago and he was wondering if Mrs. Thompson might agree to sit in the place at the wedding usually reserved for the mother of the groom.

Of course Mrs. Thompson did and guess what?

She wore that bracelet, the one with the missing rhinestones . She also made sure she wore the perfume that Teddy remembered his mother wearing on their last Christmas together. They hugged each other and Dr. Stoddard whispered in Mrs. Thompson's ear, "Thank you, Mrs. Thompson, for believing in me. Thank you so much for making me feel important and showing me that I could make a difference." Mrs. Thompson, with tears in her eyes, whispered back and said, "Teddy, you have it all wrong. You were the one who taught me that I could make a difference. I didn't know how to teach until I meet you."

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Everyone can make a difference in other peoples lives. Could this be why we are sometimes  in circumstances we don't quite understand? (publisher).