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I am a mother of
three (ages 14, 12, 3) and have recently completed my college degree.
The last class I had to take
was sociology. The teacher was absolutely inspiring with the qualities
that I wish every human being had been graced with. Her last project of
the term was called “Smile.” The class was asked to go out and smile at
three people and document their reactions. I am a very friendly person
and always smile at everyone and say hello anyway, so I thought this
would be a piece of cake, literally.
Soon after we were
assigned the project, my husband, youngest son, and I went out to
McDonald’s one crisp March morning. It was just our way of sharing
special playtime with our son.
We were standing in
line, waiting to be served, when all of a sudden everyone around us
began to back away, and then even my husband did. I did not move an
inch. An overwhelming feeling of panic welled up inside of me as I
turned to see why they had moved. As I turned around I smelled a
horrible “dirty body” smell. There, standing behind me, were two poor
homeless men. As I looked down at the short gentleman close to me, he
was smiling. His beautiful sky-blue eyes were full of God’s light as he
searched for acceptance.
He said “good day” as
he counted the few coins he had been clutching. The second man fumbled
with his hands as he stood behind his friend. I realized the second man
was mentally challenged, and the blue-eyed gentleman was his salvation.
I held my tears as I stood there with them. The young lady at the
counter asked him what they wanted. He said, “Coffee is all, miss,”
because that was all they could afford. (If they wanted to sit in the
restaurant and warm up, they had to buy something. He just wanted to be
warm.)
Then I really felt
it! The compulsion was so great I almost reached out and embraced the
little man with the blue eyes. That is when I noticed all eyes in the
restaurant were set on me, judging my every action. I smiled and asked
the young lady behind the counter to give me two more breakfast meals on
a separate tray. I then walked around the corner to the table that the
men had chosen as a resting spot. I put the tray on the table and laid
my hand on the blue-eyed gentleman’s cold hand. He looked up at me,
with tears in his eyes, and said, “Thank you.”
I leaned over, began
to pat his hand and said, “I did not do this for you. God is here
working through me to give you hope.” I started to cry as I walked away
to join my husband and son. When I sat down my husband smiled at me and
said, “That is why God gave you to me, honey, to give me hope.” We held
hands for a moment and at that time we knew that only because of the
grace that we had been given were we able to give. We are not church
goers, but we are believers. That day showed me the pure light of God’s
sweet love.
I returned to college
on the last evening of class with this story in hand. I turned in my
“project,” and the instructor read it. Then she looked up at me and
said, “Can I share this?” I slowly nodded as she got the attention of
the class.
She began to read,
and that is when I knew that we, as human beings and being part of God,
share this need to heal people and to be healed. In my own way I had
touched the people at McDonald’s, my husband, son, instructor, and every
soul that shared the classroom on the last night I spent as a college
student. I graduated with one of the biggest lessons I would ever
learn: UNCONDITIONAL ACCEPTANCE
(Author unknown--Received by e-mail)
We wish smiles throughout your day,
Lana Keating
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